How long have we been together?

Enter the day you got together and see the answer straight away — the exact number of days, the same span in years and months, and the next milestone on its way. Then keep it: a live counter you can save to a home screen or send to your partner.

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Free, no signup. Your date stays in your browser unless you create a link.

How long we been together?

Same question, and the counter answers it the same way — put in the day it started and you get the number without doing any math. Most people know roughly how long it has been but not the exact day count, which is the part that’s awkward to work out in your head once you’re past a year.

The count keeps running after you close the tab. Come back and your date is still there, with a day added for every day that has passed.

How long have me and my boyfriend been together?

Enter the day you started dating and you have it — days, and what that adds up to in years and months. It works the same for a girlfriend, a partner, or a spouse, and for whichever day the two of you count as the start.

If you disagree on the date, try both. It takes a second to switch and the number updates as you type.

Together-since clock styles

Pick a style, set your date, and your counter is ready to keep or send.

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Together Since
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Together Since

Calm indigo tones for a count that sits quietly on a home screen.

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Us, In Days
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Us, In Days

Deep rose and cream — warm without being loud.

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Since Day One
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Day One

Bright and simple, counting up from the day it started.

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Days Together
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Long Distance

Cool slate tones that read clearly across a time zone or two.

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Enter the day you got together

The counter shows exactly how long it has been, down to the day.

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Make it yours

Pick colors, a font, and a title — your names, an inside joke, or nothing at all.

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Send it to your partner

Share the link, or save it to a home screen so the number is there whenever you look.

Ways couples use the counter

A running number turns “a couple of years, I think” into something exact.

  • A shared home screen link for both of you
  • Working out the exact number for an anniversary card or caption
  • Long-distance couples counting the time behind them, not just until the next visit
  • Settling the question of when you actually started dating
  • Marking 100 days, 1,000 days, or a year without doing the math
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How long have we been together — FAQ

Quick answers about which date to count from, sharing the counter, and keeping it private.

How do I work out how long we have been together?

Enter the day you got together in the counter above. It shows the total number of days plus the same span in years, months, and days, and it updates on its own — the day count ticks over at midnight, the way you'd count it on a calendar.

How long have me and my boyfriend been together?

Put the date you started dating into the counter and it answers straight away — the exact number of days, and what that comes to in years and months. Same for a girlfriend, partner, spouse, or the day you made it official.

What date should we count from?

Whichever day the two of you treat as the start — a first date, the day you made it official, or the day you moved in. There's no right answer, and plenty of couples count from a day that means something only to them. Pick one and the counter does the rest.

Does it count the first day?

The count starts at zero on the day itself and reaches one the following day, the same way you'd count nights away on a trip. If you'd rather the first day count as day one, set the date one day earlier.

How is this different from an anniversary countdown?

This counts time that has already passed — how long it has been since you got together. An anniversary countdown runs the other way, counting down to your next anniversary. Plenty of couples keep both, so there's an Anniversary Countdown page here too.

Can I share the counter with my partner?

Yes. Create your clock and you get a link to send — a text, a group chat, wherever. It opens a live page with the same count running, so you're both looking at the same number.

Is it private?

Yes. There's no signup and no account. Your date is remembered only in your own browser so it's waiting when you come back. Nothing is stored on our servers — if you create a shareable clock, the date travels inside the link itself, so only people you send it to can see it.

Is it free?

Yes. Counting the days, customizing the clock, and sharing the link are all free.

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